Tragically, many of us let situations, circumstances, events and other people define us.
I've seen way too many gifted, intelligent, creative people live a life of frustration, disappointment and sadness because they let circumstances and people rob them of what could be. To step out of other people's expectations and pressure takes guts... but we need to do it if we really want to establish who we are, what we're about and what this life will mean for us.
* Don't let anyone or any thing define you... who you are, your beliefs, values, goals; your life purpose. Being influenced by external forces is normal... being defined by them is tragic. Take your time, do it